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What's The Score Coach?

Posted by: Jim Chandless in Sport 2.0

Tagged in: beginner sports

Jim Chandless

It was a cool spring day on the sidelines of a youth soccer game. My 6 year old son is totally engulfed in a fierce match against, oh I can't even remember who it was. The last quarter is about to begin and one player shouts out to his teammates as they start to take the field, "Hey, what's the score?" The coach, without hesitation or using any of his ever present coaching manuals promptly replies, "The score is Fun to Fun". The number of confused players on the field went from 1 to all in the blink of an eye.  Even the other team looked confused. "What is the score?" a player repeated. My son turned towards his befuddled teammate and said, "We're ahead 3-2".  Satisfied with a more definitive answer, they all ran off to their battle positions, and towards soccer glory! Sort of...


The single most common question I get from people when it is discovered that I coach youth sports is, "How do deal with the parents?" It's a question that seems so common that it almost assumes there must be an inherent disconnect between coaches and parents. Why? Parents and coaches are on the same side, with the same mission, and the same goals. So what is behind the perception that a coach has to be at odds with the parents of the kids they coach? And more important, what does that mean for youth sports?


Every year parents send their kids off to summer camps. But only a handful of those kids will use a private coach, an often overlooked resource right in your community. While there are certainly some great camps out there, there are also some that could be considered...well...less than effective. Private coaching runs the same range of effectiveness. Choosing what camp or camps to send your young athlete to, or whether or not to have a private coach work 1 on 1 with your child, involves a number of factors. Time, expense, location, quality of instruction, interest of the child to name a few. Consider this a beginners guide to helping you busy parents decide on the best summer sport activities for your young athlete.


Make a bet, right now, with anyone that will take it. You go to any regular recreation league basketball game and at least 1 team will be playing zone defense. Probably both teams. But since you are betting, let's be safe. WHY are they playing zone at these young ages? Time to wake up coaches!


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